Hello Lil Missy UK. Thank you for taking part in this interview.
Q. Can you let our readers know who you are and what you do in the adult industry?
A. Hi my name is Lil Missy UK (Missy for short) As you may have guessed, I am based in the UK, but I also love to travel the world and meet all sorts different people. I am a fetish performer and producer, but I am mostly known for my contribution to the bondage fetish.
Q. How did you find your love for bondage?
A. It is a bit of a funny story. I was first introduced to bondage over 10+ years ago by my current partner. His kink name is KinkyBound. It was a bit of a deal breaker for him in a relationship that his partner needed to be into bondage too. Lucky for him I was reading Fifty Shades of Grey at the time, (rubbish book by the way). He thought it was a good sign and broached subject. I had actually thought about it a few times before and when he brought it up I leapt at the chance. Over 10 years later we are still enjoying bondage together and now we are sharing it with the rest of the world.
Q. What type of bondage is your favourite and why?
A. So, my personal favourite way to be tied up is with rope. I love the sheer amount of options you have when working with rope. Especially as the submissive in the relationship, knowing that the Dom could put you in any position or restrict you in any way they choose, is just so exciting. That is not to say you can not do a lot with other forms of restraints as well, I just have a soft spot for ropes as it was the first form of bondage I was ever introduced to.
Q. What advice would you give someone that wants to start their journey in bondage?
A. Bondage is super big on respect and boundaries! My biggest bit of advice for someone is to find someone you can trust. After that make sure you communicate effectively. Before a session starts you should discuss what you both want out of it or like to try and even suggest safe words to be used if necessary. Now that may sound scary (safe words) but it’s not, it is meant to be comforting. For example a common one is the traffic light system.
Green = All good/continue Amber = Still good but at my limit Red = Full Stop
Having these in place before a session starts means you both are on the same page and can check in with each other frequently.
It always surprises people to hear that the Dom/Sub relationship is a bit of an illusion, the sub is actually the one with most of the power. A true Dom will always listen to their submissive and stop as told too.
And of course, HAVE FUN! And be SAFE!
Q. Your fans can get custom videos made. What do your fans usually ask for and have you had any requests that shocked you?
A. Yes! I love to make people’s ideas come to life! The custom requests I get the most are of course bondage related. I get a lot that request intricate work or requires another person to tie me up, that is where my partner comes in. I also do a lot of Damsel in Distress (DID) or Consensual Non-Consensual (CNC) content. These are my favourite clips to film as I love to struggle in bondage and you need to in this type of content.
As for shocking I am not sure I have had many really shocking ideas reach me. I’ve had a lot of people try to push my levels but that’s the beauty of working for yourself, I make my own limits and rules.
I also have a lot of people contact me for things I have never tried before. Sometimes I give them a go and other times I say no, it is just not my thing. I do not kink shame but some things I am just not interested in trying.
Q. What can your fans look forward to from you in the near future?
A. More bondage and fetish fun! I have got so much planned for my lilmissy.uk site and you can always be sure I will be sharing my sexy fetish shenanigans on my LoyalFans.
Also, in the very near future I will be travelling back to Tampa, Florida again for FetishCon 2025 in August. Followed by my annual trip to Frankfurt in October for BoFeWo.
Lots happening
Thank you very much Lil Missy UK for this great interview Keep shining lovely lady.
To find out more about Lil Missy UK make sure to check out her website
